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How to Marry a Multi-Millionaire: The Ultimate Guide to High Net Worth Dating.(2)
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High Net Worth Mating
Chapter One
The Honorable Gold Digger
Taking care of Number One
There is nothing wrong with true love. If you can find it. The problem is most people never do. And women who sit around passively waiting for their true love to walk into their life and find them are bound to be disappointed. The only thing that will find them is old age.
While we should never give up the hope of finding true love, in the meantime looking out for number one is the most effectively strategy for individual survival. There really is no meaningful alternative to a strategy of self-interest.
A woman exists primarily to fulfill her own needs and desires her ultimate concern must be herself and her well being. Securing her financial security and comfort with an exciting and successful high net is a key goal for every intelligent, aggressive woman.
The best way to secure your future for yourself and your children is to marry a man who is rich enough and capable enough to survive comfortably through any foreseeable financial reversal.
Women need to secure their financial future while they are still of childbearing age so they can raise a family in comfort. Even high-powered Wall Street careers will rarely allow a woman time to amass enough wealthy to retire and raise a family in style and comfort.
if you graduate from business school between 23-25 years of age, it will take your at least 10 years to achieve the rank of Managing Director at a Wall Street investment bank. Even if you stay there working 16 hour days and claw your way to the top, you will just be reaching your peak earning power as your fertility begins to decline precipitously. This is the time when many professional women panic and start desperately trying to seek a husband. At this point you are negotiating from a position of weakness. your dates can see the desperation in your eyes. And the anxiety about missing the chance to have children will adversely affect and may even overwhelm your emotional well-being and can damage your high-powered career.
But if you start planning in your 20s and focus on marrying a rich man with the same dedication you would devote to a Wall Street career, you are much more likely to be rewarded with success and a great lifestyle.
Do you really want to end up as a haggard, overworked, overwrought, childless and single middle-aged woman? Or do you want to get out there and fight for a successful, intelligent and dynamic high net worth man now, while you can still get one.
The choice is yours.
A time-honored profession
Marrying wealthy is a time-honored profession. It is best distinguished from the world's oldest profession by one important fact. It is older. And, of course, wives and mothers are not usually paid by the hour.
It doesn't matter where you live. It doesn't matter where you are now. It does not matter what you do for a living. even if you are stuck on a dirt farm in Arkansas or lying in rags on a bearskin rug in a cave in Siberia, if you are an attractive woman, you can land a wealthy husband by getting on the next plane to New York City. you don't even need to speak much English. All you need is a shower, a manicure, pedicure, high heels and a great out fit. Then get on the high net worth dating circuit. Charge your tickets to the important benefits listed below and get out there and date. The world is about to become your playground.
You add value
As an ambitious woman, you should think of yourself as a value added service provider. you should not seek positions where you are insufficiently compensated for the value you added to your man's life.
An ambitious woman can provide the following diverse array of services to her wealthy companion or significant other. She offers:
1) Charming companionship
2) Intense sex
3) Social graces
4) Arm and eye candy(yourself and your attractive girlfriends)
5) Potential wife and mother material for his unborn heirs
6) A helpmate to organize his social and professional life
7) Interior decorator for multiple residences and the Gulf Stream.
Finding a High Net Worth Mate is Full-Time Job
In fulfilling all of these roles or in seeking a position as a wife or mistress you will have overhead. You will have expenses. Your income must over all the following expenses and fund a healthy nest egg for your future retirement (in case, despite all of your good efforts, you never do land that high profile husband).
1) Apartment or house
2) Gym and personal trainer
3) Spa treatments
4) Manicure and pedicure
5) High-end hair salon
6) Large wardrobe of sexy clothes for many possible occasion from an outdoor barbecue, to the beach, to the Metropolitan Museum Gala Costume Institute Party, to summer and winter cocktail parties, ski trips, dinners and business conferences.
7) la Perla, Wolford, Eres, and Agent Provocateur underwear
8) High-end handbags,
9) Shoes, shoes, shoes
10) And last but not least, especially in the later years, plastic surgery.
This adds up to a great deal of cash. You may be tempted to take a full-time job. That could be a mistake. Not having a steady source of income while piling up huge debts will actually incentivize you to be bolder in seizing high net worth dating opportunities.
Besides, you don't have time to work!
Chapter Two
The Tao Of Gold Digging
Gold digging is an art. To learn it well you must understand the basic principles and philosophy of the successful Gold Digger. The following Gold Rules can be used to successfully organize your life.
THE 10 GOLD RULES
1) Life is a business and nature is a free market system.
2) Your appearance is your most important economic asset.
3) Marriage can be a very lucrative occupation.
4) You will get the job if you add value.
5) Good is what's good for you.
6) Evil is anything not in your interest.
7) What he likes about you is not about you.
8) Morality is an opinion.
9) Rejection is information.
10) The best things in life are very expensive.
THE 10 GOLDEN RULES EXPLAINED
Life is a Business and Nature is a Free Market System
You only get gold by giving it. You will only marry a rich man if you can demonstrate the value you add to his life. Don't count on him marrying you for love. It isn't going to happen unless you know him how you can be an asset to him. And since nature is a free market system you can claw your way to the top just as men do in business. you just can't be quite so obvious.
Your Appearance is Your Most Important Economic Asset
Beauty is among the highest accomplishments for a woman. Beauty is a sign of genetic health. That's why men are attracted to beautiful women. Your job is to make yourself look beautiful whenever you go out in public. Beauty creates possibilities. Looking good is an economic asset. Your man wants a beautiful woman on his arm. Your beauty is not about you. It's an asset to him. If he doesn't think you look good on him, he won't marry you.
Marriage Can Be a Very Lucrative Occupation
No matter what career you choose, you can't possibly earn as much money as you will in the position of high net worth wife. Single women can't make enough to afford big houses in Southampton, Aspen, Palm Beach and New York. Don't kid yourself. The position of a wife to a wealthy man is far and away the best paying job you can have.
You Will Get the Job if You Add Value
Being an asset to him in as many ways as possible is the surest way to increase the net assets line in your financial statement. Give him what he wants and needs and he will give you gold (and diamonds too!).
Good is What's Good for You
You've got to start by redefining your values. You must realize that good and bad can only be judged in relation to a goal. They do not exist in the abstract. Good is when you lure your high net worth fiance away from your best girlfriend. Good is when you get what you want.
Evil is Anything Not in Your Interest
Evil is when your best girlfriend steals the heart of your fiance and he ends up marrying her and not you or if he goes back to his ex-girlfriend or wife. Evil is when someone else gets what you want.
What He likes About You is Not About You
Your prospective husband will like you only to the extent you give him what he wants. He may want you for sex, motherhood, and to be his social director, golf partner, cook and girl Friday. He may want you because he likes to lick your toes. He may like you because you know a lot about decorating or cooking. he may like you because you have good genes or large breasts or a distinguished family name. Whatever the reason, don't forget that these are all qualities that are assets to him.
Morality is an Opinion
Your job is to get your guy, not to speculate on the moral fabric of the universe. It's rare that two people's views of morality will coincide. Don't worry about the morality of marrying for money, worry about your waistline and the size of your ass. That is far more productive.
Rejection is Information
Rejection means you are in the game. If you never want to be rejected you might as well give up now. Rejection is something you learn from. What you learn is what your guy wants. Whether he wants you or doesn't want you the reasons will be his reasons. Rejection just means he didn't perceive you as a significant asset to his life. Sometimes this happens when a man figures out what you are really up to.
The Best Things in Life Are Very Expensive
Private schools, ski vacations, good jewelry, palatial homes and high-end handbags come at a steep price. The only way to afford them (unless you are one of the lucky few who inherited substantial wealthy), is to get someone to buy them for you. And believe us when we tell you that, except in very unusual circumstances, he will not be buying you a palatial home unless you are married to him.
THE 10 GOLDEN COMMANDMENTS - A FRAMEWORK FOR ACTION
Once you understand the 10 Golden Rules you are ready for the 10 Golden Commandments. The 10 Gold Commandments give you the framework for action you need to snare a high net worth husband.
1) In every relationship, always ask, "What's in it for me?"
2) Help yourself and let others help themselves.
3) Know what you want.
4) Be energetic and persistent in pursuing your man.
5) Know when to break the rules.
6) Don't be nice, be charming and sexy.
7) Be flexible and aware of shifting opportunities.
8) Don't get angry, get what you want.
9) Don't be negative.
10) Understand that what others do is not about you.
THE 10 G0LDEN COMMANDMENTS EXPLAINED
In Every Relationship, always Ask, "What's in it for me?"
This is the key question in every phase of human interaction. If you don't know what you are getting out of the situation, why are you in it? If you can't answer this question it is often because you are doing something to please another person, not yourself. This will usually end up making you unhappy. Don't do things to please other people, do them to please yourself.
Help Yourself and Let Others Help Themselves
Worry about yourself. if you want o help a person, do so because it provides some benefit to you. Helping others with no benefit to yourself is a symptom of low self-esteem and a recipe for personal failure. Saying of others "she's out for herself" is not a very pointed criticism. After all, who with any sense isn't?
Know what you want
If you don't know what you want you are never going to get it. Some women don't want to marry a rich man. Some women don't want to be able to buy anything they want. We don't know who these women are but we see them everywhere, working in meaningless office jobs, cleaning up office buildings, working in the supermarket or the post office or just walking around looking aimless and bored. These women don't realize that if you don't know what you want no one else will.
Be Energetic and Persistent in Pursuing Your Man
Life is a process of trying something, bumping up against an obstacle and being repulsed, then trying something different until finally you have a breakthrough and achieve your goal. Since you will constantly run into obstacles, you will be defeated if you lack the energy and persistence to get around them. when you run into an obstacle, instead of getting discouraged, try to see what opportunity the new obstacle presents. you may find that what looked like an obstacle may actually be something that can help you get your guy.
Know When to Break Rules
Rules are for other people. Don't obey rules for their own sake. They were not made for your benefit. Crashing a big charity benefit may be against the rules but if you do it you may be able to meet a number of eligible high net worth men. No one will thank you for obeying the rules and staying home to watch TV because you can't afford a benefit ticket or because it is sold out or you weren't invited. On the other hand you should not take extreme risks of long-term adverse consequences. Committing violent crimes of aggression to sabotage your girlfriend's efforts to land the man you want is unlikely to be the most efficient way to archive your goal. Simply undermine your rivals with malicious gossip. It is not necessary to physically kill them. Deciding whether to break or bend a rule is simply a matter of balancing the relative costs and benefits of the alternative courses of action.
Don't Be Nice, Be Charming and Sexy
Being charming, sexy and flirtatious is an important tool for getting what you want from another person. Being nice is weak because it does not ask for anything. Don't be nice gratuitously, but always be charming. The positive energy you exude can reap enormous benefits by attracting people to you who can help you get what you want.
Be Flexible and Aware of Shifting Opportunities
Circumstances are constantly changing. Your sensitivity and awareness of what is going on around you are your most important tools for getting what you want. By being aware of other people's needs and desires, you can figure out what you can offer them to get them to do what you want. The Key to life is being in the moment. If you are distracted, tired, cross or grumpy, you will miss numerous opportunities around you. You are most likely to be in the moment when you are well rested, look good and feel confident. If you are in the zone, you will have a much more positive experience of life. if you are grumpy and negative, you will repel rather than attract people and you will lose out on the possibilities they offer.
Don't Get Angry, Get What You Want
Anger is frustration at your own impotence in the face of a failure to get what you want. it is childish, tantrum-like, and has no place in your repertoire of emotions. If you are successful at getting what you want, you will have no reason to be angry. And if you fail to get what you want, it's usually because you made a mistake or miscalculation or failed to take into account an external circumstance or another person's action. This is a reason to do better next time. It is not a reason to be angry. So don't go psycho! Go shopping instead.
Don't Be Negative
Positive action requests a positive result. Being negative doesn't work because it doesn't ask for anything positive to happen. Criticism can be great fun but it won't solve the problem. Only positive action solves problems. Being negative repels other people instinctively because they know it is not a successful strategy. And other people won't want to be around you if they perceive you are an unsuccessful person. By being negative, you are waving a sign post that reads "I don't know how to get what I want. All I know how to do is complain."
Understand That What Others Do Is Not About You.
Other people do things for their own reasons. They usually don't do them intentionally to help or hurt you. They are just trying to get what they want. You may be in the way or you may not be. The best way to avoid the energy drain and friction that comes from confrontation is to stay out of the way of other people when it does not hurt you to do so. There is no point in having a confrontation over the fact that someone shoved you in the subway. It's simply energy draining and a complete waste of time. The Manolo Blahniks sample sale? That's a situation where you should get aggressive. Grab that last pair of silver stilettos right out of the hands of that pushy publicist ahead of you, sweetie!