Internet dating is 100% anonymous. But if you are familiar with Internet dating, or you tried to meet your cyber mate offline, you’ll find that anonymity of Internet dating is not so good as it’s exclaimed. A moment ago, we interviewed some dating experts and counselors from millionaire dating, with the purpose of bringing more success to singles who are trying online dating.
“Lack of face to face interaction can be misleading sometimes”, says Ellen White, the dating coach from millionairecupid.com, “When you are interested in someone, it usually means you are interested in the photo, or the paper work described in “about me” section. Since everyone has the right and intention to show the good side, the decoration of dating profile is indispensable. In online dating, don’t always believe what you see, as that may not always be the truth.”
How to pick up a real mate from Internet dating? If you don’t want to date a scammer, or a jerk, the following tips from the millionaire dating coach will help you out.
Use your common sense. If someone sounds too good to be true, probably it is. Everybody knows that “love is blind”, so you should not make yourself blind when you read the dating profile.
1) Check the photo. If it has watermark from a different website, or from a different place, it usually means the photo is stealed from somewhere else.
2) Check the birth date. Some dating site mark the default birth date as Jan, 1. So if you see someone’s birth date is Jan, 1, it usually means that is not the truth. Although we have to admit some people may be born on Jan, 1, the possibility is really low.
3) If the profile income says the profile owner is a millionaire, or a rich man, but the photo shows he is badly dressed or from an ordinary family, probably you will find the inconsistency.
4) If you see blond hair and blue eyes in the profile description, but you can’t confirm that through the profile photo, you know what that means.
5) Check the writing and grammar. Some Nigerian scammers got a bad English writing. If you read a profile and found the English expressions are hard to tolerate, you should be aware of that probably this guy has fake identity.
6) And there can be a lot more, just use your common sense, which works most of the time.
Pay attention to the verification logo. For members who are serious of dating, they will try all their best to make themselves real and credible.
1) Members can prove their identity by providing their passport or driver’s license to the millionaire dating site. Once their identity is verified, you can see a verified logo on their profiles. On MillionaireCupid.com, you can find verified icons on profile.
2) Of course, you are interested in verified members, you should also
make yourself a verified member. Otherwise, others will not take you a
serious member either.3) For jerks or scammers, they have no way to make them verified, as everything on the their profile is fake.
Get help from dating website support. Sometimes you may be very interested in someone, but you are not very sure if that guy is a jerk or not. It’s the right time for you to write to the dating website support and get help from them. You may tell them your worries and your contact details. You may get your desired info if the dating website has a working customer support.
Pay attention to the mutual contact. Some members may ask you to chat on another website or ask for your yahoo messenger, msn, or mailbox at the very beginning. Usually, you should not follow that. Try to keep the contact on the dating site and do not move on to anywhere else. The reason is quite simple: jerks will be removed from the dating site as soon as they are discovered. So they need to get an alternative contact method to keep the communication on.
To succeed in Internet dating, what you need is far more than time, patience and communication. You need to be very witty to filter out all the inappropriate mates at the first stage. It’s possible that you filtered out 80% of the profiles you are interested in, but all the left will be 10 times more quality those those that are filtered out. Then, concentrate on the left 20% and try to pick up 2 or 3 and check if you will be able to date and marry one of them. Don't want to spend every night alone? Create a profile on the best millionaire dating sites and check who is your best match! Millionaire Match Reviews