Millionaire Dating: How to filter out pretenders from contenders?

To some ladies, a rich man or wealthy guy is the final aim they are seeking of, and they've spent lots of energy and efforts in searching a successful upscale guy around the world. What do you think of the result? Yes, most of them failed, and the reason can not be more simple: there are so many pretenders scattered everywhere, and they failed to filter them out. So, our millionaire dating counselor who comes from MillionaireCupid.com, the online millionaire matchmaker, will talk about this topic today, for the purpose of helping those are are pursing a real millionaire for serious relationships.

Prior to a first date with a successful man, you should feel confident enough that you will never waste your time on pretenders. How to filter out those pretenders from the real contenders?

Filtering out the pretenders from the contenders can be a bit tricky. Plus, you don't want to offend anyone right off the bat by asking for a copy of financial statements. So does a woman screen candidates even before the first date?

Actually, it's not so difficult. A number of questions during the initial conversation, which may sound very casual, can reflect a man's real character. Remember, the presentation is important. If you remember what he said carefully, you will find problems if he have inconsistent words in a later time. And if you are acute enough, you can make an analysis and dig out more stuff from what he said, for instance, his background life, his social status, his friends circle, his personality, and a lot more. After the ice-breaker, you may say something about yourself and show your sincerity so that he will not have the impression that you are just a gold digger.

Then, both of you may feel ease with the stay. You may start some simple questions to let him talk more about him. For example, "where did you go to college?" "what do you usually do in your spare time?" "Do you play sports or what's your favorite sport?" Such questions will bring the buy into his youthful "glory days" which he should be happy to talk about. If he comes from a good family, we can surely say that he went a good college, with upscale friends circle, enjoying luxury lifestyles or sports games. With these questions, you can basically determine if the guy comes from a good family. They will become your first and foremost target because people who grew up with money always believe the money will be there.

However, there are also exceptions. There are so many successful men who earned their wealth from nothing. They don't have the best education, the excellent early background, ... But most people in this group still enjoy upscale friends circle, take golf and some good sport activities periodically. Just talk with them and find out the answers.

OK, this is the first step for you to filter out the potential wealthy men. We'll return to this topic again and talk about it further on a later time. Good luck in your search. Any dating problems, you can find us at MillionaireCupid.com, the online Millionaire Matchmaker.

Afraid of online dating? No, it's so easy!

While you are enjoying the benefits of online dating, the online dating safety may still disturb you. Communicating with new and strange people can be quite scary and tricky to some singles, especially those beautiful women or wealthy people.

A friend of mine started dating on a millionaires club. A few days after her registration, a man approached her and exchanged emails back and forth. Then, it's the time for them to meet each other. She feels quite uncomfortable as the guy who claims to have great background is not a verified member. She did a background check on google without getting any useful info. So, she is worrying about whether she should meet the man. Any similar experiences?

Just a couple of months ago, we did some investigation and posted an article "Millionaire Matchmaker: Ladies, safety tip for your first meet up" on want millionaire dating advice. Probably, this is the right time for us to return to this topic and dig out some further problems.

On any dating clubs, you may meet both honest members and abusive members. It's not correct to say the dating site is good or bad just because you met some some good or bad members. On the millionaire dating site, you will meet the following members: 1) Recommended members, 2) Verified members, 3) Standard members. According to experiences, recommended members and verified members are credible and real. Generally speaking, they are double checked and confirmed by the website. If you contact them, there will be no problems. For standard members without verification, you need to be more careful and try your best to filter out those abusive ones.

As a member of this site for almost 1 year, I'd share some of my experiences for filtering out abusive members. First, if someone asked you to chat with him/her on yahoo IM or other IM in the first email, or ask you to tell your real email address so that you two can communicate more conveniently, what's your first reaction? Yes, abusive member. Don't follow him/her tip, or you will get into the trap. The reason is quite simple: they can't stay long on the site. So, they ask you to communicate off the site. Every time I meet such members, I send them to support. About 1 day later, I will get an email from support saying that the member has been removed. Got it?

Second, some members may post very beautiful photos on their profiles, and their profile info is well written. But you can find lots of spelling/grammar problems in their email messages. What do you think of them? Possible scammer from Africa. Send them to support too.

Third, I did also meet some tricky abusive members too. At the very beginning, everything goes well. Maybe, one month later, or during the time for our face to face meet, they will meet some urgent problems and they need money. Many members may fall into the trap as they trust them to a certain degree. No, that's not the truth. It's still scam. You need to be aware of that.

All in all, all of the problematic members are standard members. Not recommended, not verified. So, if you want to make yourself better protected, try to search those recommended or verified members, not everyone who looks good to you. At the same time, if you want to show yourself as a credible guy, make yourself verified.

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Romance tips for men from a woman's perspective

What does it mean to be romantic? When many people hear the word "romance", certain words, phrases and visions come to mind automatically. Indeed, such acts as giving flowers, cards and chocolates can be seen as romantic and are usually appreciated by any woman on the receiving end of such an act.

But doesn't romance extend beyond flowers, cards and candies?

Consider this: In order to be romantic, one must know what the woman he is romancing likes.

As a woman, I love to get flowers. I don't really care what kind they are or how many there are, but I am appreciative of whenever a man gives me flowers. But guess what? I also like love letters. And poems. And red velvet cupcakes. And being serenaded. I could make a list of things that I like that would be considered romantic TO ME. But what is romantic to me might not be as romantic to the next woman.

I encourage you as you get to the know the person you're dating/with, that you take the time to figure out their individual preferences, likes, dislikes, etc. Perhaps your woman likes poetry and you're a decent writer and choose to read a poem to her about how she's been on your mind. Or perhaps you're a horrible writer and you decide to write a quirky poem that evokes your woman's sense of humor because she LOVES to laugh. If your woman loves roses, then by all means, feel free to give her roses. But whatever it is that she likes, try your best to appeal to it.

The purpose in being romantic is to express to your woman that you care about her, and there isn't a better way to do that than by showing that you have taken the time to get to know her as an individual and what she likes.

Please note: I think this is worth stating. As women, we tend to be more emotional than men. But you already knew this right? Well, keep that in mind when you're thinking about doing something YOU might consider 'romantic'. For instance, maybe your woman loves watching dvds and doesn't have a dvd player. Don't buy her a dvd player as a Valentine's day gift. (You may be laughing as you're reading this, but I actually had someone I was dating give me a dvd player as a V-day gift. Not that I wasn't appreciative; it just wasn't romantic!) We women equate romance with acts that express that you care for/desire/adore us; so keep that in mind before you go buying or doing something for her that would be considered much more 'practical' than 'romantic'.

Also, often times it's the simplest things that end up being the most romantic. For instance:

-an unexpected hug/kiss, smile & complement
-a spontaneous phone call to say she was on your mind
-holding her hand/putting your arm around her waist
-leaving a hand written note or greeting card for her after departing from a date
All of the above are examples of simple acts that would be considered romantic. All it takes is a thoughtful moment.

Being genuine and being yourself is an important part of being romantic. If you are doing something just because it's the "textbook romantic thing to do" then chances are your woman will know that. How? Because us women have this little thing called intuition. We can discern when your being genuine. Not to sound cliche, but when it comes to romance, it definitely is "the thought that counts". So know yourself and what you're comfortable with doing.

When you make an honest effort to get to know her and just be yourself, then the romance part is something you won't have to worry about as much; it will just come naturally to you. So have fun with it, be yourself and the rest will take care of itself.

More tips? Check with our live dating counselor now!

Millionaire Dating: What to do if you get rejections?

Since there are more and more members complained about the rejection problem of millionaire dating, which is also a common problem for online dating, we've prepared some posts for this topic on our dating column. [Link]

Why will you be interested in this topic?

If you are still trying online dating, you are very likely to get "No, thanks" from the guys whom might be your Mr/Mrs Right in your own thought. Or you may not get a word from them even you've messaged them once, twice, or even more than 3 times. Usually, you'll be discouraged and disappointed with the whole online dating scene. Check some stories from others and you will find that you are not the only guy who did meet this problem.

What you can get from dating rejection?

First, you will be more confortable if you know that you are not the only one who received rejection. Second, you will be able to know how to treat it correctly following others' examples.

Rejection is unavoidable in online dating. The reason is quite simple: there are millions of singles who are registered with the online dating network, but you just need one people who is right for you. If you contact the other 999999+ singles, usually you will get "No, thanks" or no response.

Come on! Get rid of the rejections and filter out the right people for you. Millionaire Dating